A recent article by Eleanor Mill’s in The Sunday Times, ‘Done heroin, had a kid, now she’s hooked on finding a job’ made an incredibly inspirational read. A lady named Jane, who grew up in a family that has depended on benefits for generations, and who found herself spending a decade on heroin ‘just existing,’ is in the process of turning her life around for the better.
After losing custody of her little girl, Jane attended a 11-week parenting course and is now focussed on getting her daughter back full-time, as well as getting a job. This story is proof that people have the internal ability and wisdom to change their own lives for the better, when given the right encouragement and resources.
The article outlines Cheryl Milner’s views, who with 4Children in Wiltshire is pioneering a scheme to get young mothers into work. She rightly says that “the trick is not just to get people into work but to give them the confidence, tools and skills to stay there.”
This is a crucial point. I was trained by Jerry Sternin the founder of Positive Deviance, which takes this very same philosophy and sees astounding results. Positive Deviance is based on the premise that people and communities have the wisdom to create change for the better, but that these hidden wisdoms need uncovering and that all community members need to be given a voice. It also encourages community members to develop new skills as the community – not professionals – lead the project, conducting data collection and listening exercises among other skills. In our projects with the Home Office we have seen people change in front of us. It is an incredibly powerful thing to watch.
This article shows that seeing people as people first and not as victims or statistics is the most important thing society can do for them. Giving them a voice and hope is integral to resolving many problems within communities, even those of the most intractable nature.